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Read
This and
You'll Know
as
Much About
Me as My Mother Does, Maybe Even More
I'm an only child and I
share a birthday with Ernest Hemingway and
Robin Williams. That should tell you a lot about me! I'm a full-blown
introvert who has learned how to fake being an extrovert when I need to
and my moods can change from up to down and back again before you
know it.
I
was born on July 21, 1958, in Concord, California, a town
that sits roughly between San
Francisco and Sacramento. Most of my
childhood, my mom and I lived with my grandmother. At my grandmother's
house, my bedroom was up in the attic, which was a second floor I had
all to myself.
It was the only room I ever had that my mom didn't bug me to keep
clean. No one else ever came all the way up those steep stairs to my
room. Sometimes I would make-believe I was a princess and my room was
really a tower in the castle.
I liked to follow my grandfather around while he did his chores and
fixed things around the house. I even followed down to the basement and
under the house. When he went duck hunting I would help him pluck the
feathers from the ducks and when it was time to knock the walnuts off
the trees I used to try to help.
Most of the time I was a
pretty good kid but like most kids, sometimes I got in trouble.
The worst thing about where
we lived was not having any other kids
around to play with. I had friends at school but they all lived at the
other end of town. The neighborhood I lived in was where everyone's
grandparents lived but not very many kids my own age. So I learned to
use my imagination when I got
lonely. By inventing imaginary friends, I managed to stay out of my
mother’s and grandmother's way, at least some of the time.
The rest of
the time I spent riding horses,
roller skating
competitively, 
or
curling up with a good book. I remember that my Uncle Fred used to
bring me a book for birthdays and Christmas. My grandmother had a
lot of old Reader's Digest Condensed books and I used to read them all
the time. Eventually I found the used book store downtown and I would
go down there and just "hang out" around the books. Luckily the owner
of the shop seemed pretty patient with me because I never really had
the money to buy any books.
My mom would probably tell
you I spent
most of my teen years on the
phone.
I always seemed to be writing something, often really bad poetry about
events that I had never even experienced. I tried to publish my first
book when I was 12 years old. It seemed perfectly acceptable to me that
the publisher wanted me to send them $2000 to publish my book of poems,
and I didn't understand why my mom wouldn't let me do it. Now I know
that was just a vanity press and that publishers are supposed to pay
ME, not the other way around. But back then, my literary hopes felt
completely dashed.
I loved everything about going to school, yes, even the homework part.
But then I was lucky and most of it came easy to me—everything but
math. I still hate anything to do with numbers.
In 1976, I graduated from Mt. Diablo High School in Concord. My mom and
my grandmother both graduated from the same high school. I always
thought that was kind of neat. I got
married in 1977, and soon had two children, Ryan and Jennifer. We moved
to Oakley, a small town not far ouside of Concord, where there was
still a little patch of country left, and I could get back around
horses again. I didn't take my writing seriously until after my kids
were born. Before they were in school, I traded babysitting with other
new moms so I could have time to write. I couldn't wait for them to go
off to school. I remember how excited I was when my daughter started
kindergarten. For the first time I would have five hours a day, every
day, to write. All the other moms cried when their kids got on the
school bus, but not me. I ran all the way home and back to the
typewriter. (Yes…there was a pre-computer time.)
It
was hard squeezing in writing, and learning about writing, amidst
chauffeuring my kids to Little League, soccer, gymnastics, karate, and
horses, but I tried, and somehow I managed. I
carried a notebook with
me whenever I took the kids to all their activities. I got good at
tuning out the noises around me while I wrote. Pretty soon I was
writing all the time, and the kids were telling all their friends how
one day their mom would have books in the library. My kids always
wanted me to write stories about them, until they got old enough to be
embarrassed by some of the things I told them they did when they were
little. They did give me a lot of inspiration though, especially for my
book Did Not! Did So!
In 1994, I was divorced and moved out of California for the first (and
last) time in my life. My kids stayed with their
dad to finish school and I was suddenly 100% alone. Talk about scary! I
was borderline agoraphobic when I left,
afraid of driving at night, in the rain, and over bridges. My friends
didn't think I would survive the trip but I did, giving proof to
Hemingway's comment, "The world
breaks everyone and afterward many are
strong in the broken places."
I drove cross-country and landed in Norfolk, Virginia. My favorite
memory about Virginia is the Chesapeake Bay. I could watch it for
hours. I lived in Virginia for almost a year, working as a temp in
different places, including a taxicab company. Next I moved to New
Orleans. New Orleans was quite different from anything I had ever
experienced. Back in California, we worried about earthquakes. Now I
had to worry about hurricanes! I wasn't too crazy about the weather in
New Orleans, but they did have some great food like crawfish and
deep-fried turkey at Thanksgiving and Christmas. I worked for an
oilfield company and ran their warehouse. It was actually a lot of fun.
I also wrote a weekly column in the New
Orleans Times Picayune where I
got to write about local people and events. I went to several Mardi
Gras parades, which can be exciting, and collected a lot of what they
call "throws," which are beads, fake coins, and toys that they throw
off the floats and into the crowds.
I got homesick for
California, and my kids, and in January of 1998 I
moved back to California and to the Silicon Valley. My children are
both grown and out on their own now but when I look back, it really
doesn't seem that long ago that I was reading children's books
to my kids instead of trying to write them and publish them for
myself.
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My biggest challenge is juggling my work week with my writing. Since my
writing isn't self-supporting, I have to work at a more conventional
job during the week, and squeeze my writing in whenever I can. I'd have
plenty of time to do everything I want if I didn't need to sleep. For a
time I also had to squeeze in going to college because for many years
my biggest regret was that I didn't go to college right after high
school. But in September of 2000 I finally got my college degree. I
have a passion for medieval history, am a confirmed chocoholic (with a
definite weakness for Reese's peanut butter cups and Mr. Goodbars), and
believe it is nearly impossible to digest food unless you are reading
while you eat.
Some of my friends don't think I play enough, but the truth is, I love
everything about the writing business so much that it feels more like
play than work. I enjoy writing letters to friends, researching
projects on the Internet, and watching movies that make me cry.
I'm also active in several groups like The Society of Children's Book
Writers and Illustrators and the California Writers Club.
At the moment, I live with my husband Erik in San Jose, California. I
love to collect things — books, cobalt blue glass, blue and white
china, and figurines that have
something to do with reading and writing. (My favorites are the
cartoon characters.)
I don't know what the future brings except, I hope, more wonderful
writing adventures. But for now there's a lot of laughter in our house
and books in every room.
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